Saturday, April 14, 2007

Arranged or deranged!!

Man ...this arranged wedding crap is really really funny!!so how do we still find a bride/bridegroom....
so evolved we ve become thanks to "liberalization"(now that influences even the way u breathe in this country)...but we still are so loyal to "ponnu pakkradhu'!!ceremony.....we follow it to a T.I really wonder why do u still look for a girl/guy who looks like say a stereotype......."wanted fair...educated...tall....well mannered....blah...blah..."

Its really a welcome relief to see a lot of families encourage children choosing their own life partners....being their support system and respecting their decision!!

ultimately......u arrange or " they "arrange......what matters is how far would u love the person for being what they are!!and how much of happiness and understanding they share!

Adha vittutu...ponna pakrennu vandhu!!!

what if the girl puts on weight after marriage ...or gets tanned or something!!i jus cant stop laughing at all this stupidity!!

Nowadays everybody is aware of what they want....thay have an independent mind.....think about it....!!
its high time "the groom to be"....becomes mores sensible and accepts a " life partner" rather than choosing a girl like a commodity...its not a business deal for heavens sake.i kno it may sound pretty old...for the times we are living in....but sad there are still people who make it look like we ve never changed for the good at all!!


Still they do get dowry!!if the guy is working/living abroad ....then the girl's family is treated like ...u never want to kno!!!grow up people!!!


its ultimately a union of two individuals and their life together......so let them decide.....don't make it so complicated.....

Marriage is an age old institution its a respectable one....it has definitely added value to lives of innumerable individuals.....it has been the reason for happiness in many people's lifes...
so let it continue to be so......

Am really shocked at the way some people treat a wedding as just a business opportunity!!

I am really happy for all those who ve been lucky enough to find their loved one for life!!
the others have a tough time....sad!

4 comments:

Unknown said...

some sucks.. some are great.. its people and their habits, community.. depends where you are.. and how you are.. such is life.. and marriage.. luck play good role and understanding.. common sense helps..

reality and perfection are oxymoron..

Priya said...

its a fucking business opportunity!dont even get me started on that!

..p..

petitestylo said...

@yuva: luck n other factors all right but who s gonna suffer!!:(

@priya :he he ..i kno i kno...

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